CelebrateRecovery-CrossPoint
Life hurts….God heals

Jul
15

The Bible clearly states “all have sinned.” It is my nature to sin, and it is yours too.  None of us is untainted.  Because of sin, we’ve all hurt ourselves, we’ve all hurt other people, and others have hurt us.  This means each of us need repentance and recovery in order to live our lives the way God intended.

You’ve undoubtedly heard the expression that “time heals all wounds.”   Unfortunately, it isn’t true.  As a pastor I frequently talk with people who are still carrying hurts from 30 or 40 years ago.  The truth is – time often makes things worse.  Wounds that are left untended fester and spread infection throughout your entire body.  Time only extends the pain if the problem isn’t dealt with.

What we need is a biblical and balanced program to help people overcome their hurts, habits and hang-ups. Celebrate Recovery is that program. Based on the actual words of Jesus rather than psychological theory, our recovery program is unique, and more effective in helping people change than anything else I’ve seen or heard of.  Over the years I’ve witnessed how the Holy Spirit has used this program to transform literally thousands of lives at Saddleback Church and help people grow toward full Christlike maturity.

Most people are familiar with the classic 12 step program of A.A. and other groups.  While undoubtedly many lives have been helped through the twelve steps, I’ve always been uncomfortable with that program’s vagueness about the nature of God, the saving power of Jesus Christ, and the ministry of the Holy Spirit.   So I began an intense study of the Scriptures to discover what God had to say about “recovery.”  To my amazement, I found the principles of recovery, and even their logical order, given by Christ in his most famous message, the Sermon on the Mount.

My study resulted in a ten-week series of messages called “The Road to Recovery.” During that series, my Associate Pastor John Baker developed the workbooks, which became the heart of our Celebrate Recovery program.   I believe that this program is unlike any recovery program you may have seen.   There are seven features that make it unique:

This recovery program is based on God’s Word, the Bible. When Jesus taught the Sermon on the Mount, he began by stating “Eight Ways to Be Happy.”  Today we call them the Beatitudes.   From a conventional viewpoint, most of these statements didn’t make sense.   They sounded like contradictions.  But when you fully understand what Jesus is saying, you’ll realize that these eight principles are God’s road to recovery, wholeness, growth, and spiritual maturity.

This recovery program is forward-looking.   Rather than wallowing in the past, or dredging up and rehearsing painful memories over and over, Celebrate Recovery focuses on the future.  Regardless of what has already happened, the solution is to start making wise choices now and depend on Christ’s power to help me make those changes.

This recovery program emphasizes personal responsibility.  Instead of playing the “accuse and excuse” game of victimization, this program helps people face up to their own poor choices and deal with what they can do something about.  We cannot control all that happens to us.  But we can control how we respond to everything.  That is a secret of happiness.  When we stop wasting time fixing the blame, we have more energy to fix the problem.  When you stop hiding your own faults and stop hurling accusations at others, then the healing power of Christ can begin working in your mind, will, and emotions.

This recovery program emphasized spiritual commitment to Jesus Christ.  The 3rd principle calls for people to make a total surrender of their lives to Christ.  Lasting recovery cannot happen without this step.  Everybody needs Jesus.  Celebrate Recovery is thoroughly evangelistic in nature.  In fact, the first time I took our entire church through this program over 500 people prayed to receiver Christ on a single weekend.  It was an amazing spiritual harvest.  And during the ten week series that I preached to kick-off this program, our attendance grew by over 1,500 people!  Don’t be surprised if this program becomes the most effective outreach ministry in your church.  Today, nearly 73% of the people who’ve been through Celebrate Recovery have come from outside our church.  Changed lives always attract others who want to be changed.

This recovery program utilizes the biblical truth that we need each other in order to grow spiritually and emotionally.   It is built around small group interaction and the fellowship of a caring community.  There are many therapies, growth programs, and counselors today that are built around one-on-one interaction.  But Celebrate Recovery is built on the New Testament principle that we don’t get well by ourselves.  We need each other.   Fellowship and accountability are two important components of spiritual growth.   If your church is interested in starting small groups, this is a great way to get started.

This recovery program addresses all types of habits, hurts and hang-ups.  Some recovery programs deal only with alcohol or drugs or another single problem.  But Celebrate Recovery is a “large umbrella” program under which a limitless number of issues can be dealt with.   At Saddleback Church, only one out of three who attend Celebrate Recovery are dealing with alcohol or drugs.  We have dozens of other specialized groups too.

Finally, this recovery program produces lay ministers! Because Celebrate Recovery is biblical and church-based, it produces a continuous stream of people moving into ministry after they’ve found recovery in Christ.  Eighty-five percent of the people who’ve gone through the program are now active members of Saddleback Church, and an amazing 42% are now using their gifts and talents serving the Lord in some capacity in our church.

In closing, let me say that the size of your church is no barrier to beginning a Celebrate Recovery ministry.  You can start it with just a small group of people and watch it grow by word-of-mouth.  Your won’t be able to keep it a secret for long!

You are going to see lives changed in dramatic ways.   You are going to see hopeless marriages restored and people set free from all kinds of sinful habits, hang-ups, and hurts as they allow Jesus to be Lord in every area of their lives.  To God be the glory!  We’ll be praying for you.

Jul
15

Why offer Celebrate Recovery?  Why not leave this stuff up to other people and other organizations?  Good questions.

As a pastor I’ve come to realize that when new people walk through our doors it is almost always for one of two reasons: they’re either really happy or really hurting.  Something major has gone on in their life – for good or bad – that has driven them to get connected to their Creator. Truth is, almost no one just happens to roll out of bed on a Sunday morning after years of ignoring God’s existence, and say, “You know, I usually sleep ‘till Noon on Sundays but today I’m thinking church!”

Quite the opposite. A young couple comes bouncing through our doors newly engaged and looking for the perfect church to get married in and raise their children in.  Life has changed and they’re happy.  A middle-aged man hides in the back of the worship center wondering why his marriage has fallen apart and if God can help him get his wife back.  Life has changed and he’s hurting. A woman pulls in the parking lot having taken on a new job, in a new town, and it’s time to find a new church. A father has brought his family to church for the first time in 15 years because his wife has an addiction that’s ruining the family and they need to know if Jesus can work a miracle. People come through our doors with lives in flux and hearts either full of joy or filled with hurts.

And the sad truth is that most Christian communities – ours included – tend to be really good at welcoming in and showing love to the “happy” people and not so good at welcoming, connecting with, and providing true healing to those hurting people.  We tend to do step one and give them the gospel, reminding them that they are forgiven of their sins and no longer owned by their struggles through the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ on the cross, and never, for those who need it, get to step two. We give them the good news that they’re right with God but then do little to help them deal with the ripple effects of their sinful choices and heal the deep wounds in their past.

And yet Jesus tells us that he came to give us more than an eternity, more than membership in His family and more than forgiveness of sins – as if those aren’t incredible on their own. Jesus tells us that he came so that we might “have life and have it to the full” right here and right now. (John 10:10) Which, for those who are hurting, means allowing the power of God and the message of Jesus to not just save their souls tomorrow but heal their wounds today; to take the stuff in them that is broken and change it into an incredible testimony of God’s power and love for even the lowliest of people and the worst of sins.

That’s why any church that wants to truly change lives and leave a lasting impact on the world will not only engage in mission trips to third world countries or open up food banks for the needy.  They will first and foremost position themselves to bind up the wounds and apply the gospel to the deep hurts and hidden pains of the men and women walking through their doors every Sunday morning. That’s when real, lasting, life change takes place.  And that’s exactly why we’re starting Celebrate Recovery at CrossPoint. It’s about facing the reality that scores of broken people are in our church and in our community and doing what we can offering to them the full life found in Jesus Christ.

And no one else can offer the lasting healing and the full hope that God’s people do.  No one.  Everything else is just a Band-Aid. Only Jesus can give them the full life, not just a fixed life.

Pastor Matt

Jul
10

From Bill Woolsey, Sr Pastor @ CrossPoint……..

I  appreciate how, like many things in this world, alcohol can be used for bad and misused greatly.  In our teaching and counseling, we constantly address that reality and, depending on the individual, will speak the convicting/unpopular truth as necessary.

I suggest, however, that from a theological standpoint, the Bible does not condemn alcohol—it condemns its misuse.  Very, very similar to its charge regarding money.  It does not condemn money—it condemns its misuse (“the love of” money).  The historical Church has taught this for over four millenniums.  Passover has always been celebrated with wine.  The first (and subsequent) Lord’s Suppers have been celebrated with wine.  Jesus affirmed the celebration of the wedding of Canaan with wine.  Wine is one of those natural by-products of no refrigeration that would have been the end-result of the grape harvest.  The fermentation process is one of those natural processes our Creator God made and thus made for our enjoyment.  Not, however, for our abuse.

One of the tensions we (the church) have in a post-church society (where we are in the US, and it will only become more so) is that the Christians of this country must be a mission force, building bridges into the lives of those who don’t know Christ.  We work hard at CrossPoint to live in both worlds—a world of loving and communicating to the un-Christian in his language—while also living in a world of loving and communicating with our God in His language.  It is a life in tension, living under God’s grace in Christ while also allowing His Spirit to conform us more and more to His will.  It is a life of enjoying the taste and the camaraderie of having a beer with good friends while not abusing that taste or friendship.

We hold Theological Pub along the same lines of Jesus ministering to those who felt unwelcome in the synagogue or disenfranchised from the religious teachings of the day.  We speak the truth there—often the unpopular one—and always demonstrate that Christ’s love is meant to be taken to the community, into settings where the community is open to hearing and reflecting on it.

Jul
09

I recently asked a very good friend to guest write for us.  You can visit Bard’s blog @ http://bard.typepad.com/ or by following the link on our blog roll to the right.  Here is Bard’s first entry for us.

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In the past few months I have dealt with three different people going through divorces. One of them caused by their own addiction to alcohol, the others their spouse left them for someone else. Two of these individuals are falling apart, convinced their life is over, and their world has ended.  They say they want help but no matter what you do to try to help they reject it. Their response “You don’t understand what I am going through…no one understands how I feel!!”

The truth however is statistically half the people who have ever been married have gone through what they are going through. They would however rather have a pity party for themselves than focus getting on with the business of recovery and making the best of their future. That is what the love of Christ and His grace is all about… putting the past behind you and moving forward. God’s grace is not something that is earned but something that is freely given to all Ephesians 2:8-9 (NKJ). No matter where you have been or what you have done, nothing surprise or shocks God and His grace is available to you, if you will accept it.

If you have an addiction, drugs, alcohol, or are going through some tough times, you are not alone. Hundreds of thousands of people are dealing with the same thing you are. Many of their stories parallel yours. What is the main difference between someone who is recovering from an addiction or setback in life and someone who is not…attitude and taking advantage of God’s grace. Chuck Swindoll has a great quote “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” When everything else seems out of control there is always one thing you have total control of, and that is your attitude.

Two of my friends are falling apart…but the third is putting their life back together. They have chose to examine where their life went wrong, take responsibility for the part they played in messing it up and are now taking steps to adjust their attitude. They are tapping into God’s grace and makeing the necessary changes in an effort to not repeat the same mistakes. If they can do it anyone can do it…if they so choose.

So, what attitude are you going to choose today?  Are you going to access God’s grace or keep struggling in your own limited power? Remember the choice is yours, choose wisley.

Jun
26

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Jun
26

The Next Step…

But there were success stories too.  In fact, a recovering alcoholic who hadn’t touched a bottle in years once told me, “Karl, everyone has an addiction, but many of us don’t even know it.”  ….There’s wisdom in that statement………and I think he’s right.

So if you’re feeling a little too close to a fool repeating his folly, or you have some junk in your life that smells and you just can’t seem to get pass, CrossPoint Community Church is in the process of forming a support group for addiction and recovery to help people get real and work through their hurts, hang-ups, and bad habits.  It’s about discovering hope and change that maybe you thought were beyond your reach.  If you need help or want to get involved, I encourage you to take the first step:  email Brian Kolb who will be leading CrossPoint’s Celebrate Recovery at cmail4brian@gmail.com, or me, Pastor Karl, at kschuler@crosspt.org.  Getting help starts with taking action and getting involved.  Are you in?

Jun
25

The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you.

Jun
19

Frazier was my dog when I was a kid growing up, and he was an eating machine.  We didn’t need to buy any Scooby snacks.  Frazier would eat just about anything:  ice cubes, lettuce, peanut butter, trash, road kill, and yes, even his own vomit. ‘Hey, why trot to the dog dish when there’s something steamy right there in front of you?  Mmmmm good.’

Pretty disgusting I know…and you & I would never eat our own vomit, right?  So why are we talking about it?  Well, because it’s one of the best slams against the foolish in the whole Bible….check it out:

As a dog returns to its vomit,

So a fool repeats his folly. (Proverbs 26:11)

This proverb sounds pretty funny, but there’s also something about it that should make us all feel a little uneasy too.  You see, when we think about it, aren’t there some things you’ve done that you’re not proud of, or mistakes that you have repeated over and over again?  For instance:

  • Maybe you’re over your head in credit card debt and can’t seem to stop.
  • Or have you stepped into some relationship vomit…going on your third marriage or hopping from bed to bed but feeling empty inside?
  • Or, maybe you’re a weekend warrior, getting high or hugging the porcelain throne, telling yourself, ‘Don’t worry; I can quit at any time…it’s no biggie.’

“I can quit any time,” I’ve heard that one a lot over the years because before becoming a pastor, I was the Deputy Director of Human Resources for one of NASA’s Space Centers.  About every year, an employee would pop-up who had a drinking or drug problem. Sadly, some couldn’t break their addiction…they never faced the facts or never really tried to get help—they just kept returning to their mistakes again and again–eating their vomit–until they were finally fired.  It was a hard row for everyone involved and nobody was a winner–the supervisor, the co-workers, and especially the employee and his or her family.

Jun
18

Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand him.

As I understand him?  Really?  What if I don’t understand him?  Sure I grew up in church….I mean I attended church, I heard the message, but I never really learned who God is and waht he can do.  I misunderstood him.

When it came to for me to take the 3rd step, I struggled.  At some point in my recovery I realized that while drinking I had no issues…

making a decision to turn my will and my life over to the care of Jose Cuervo, Jim Bean and Jack Daniels as I understood them

but this God thing was impossible for me.  Or was it?  I had enough experience in drying out and drinking again that I knew I wanted no more of it.  I wanted sobriety but thought there was no way I’d achieve it.

I had to equate the 3 rd step to Newton’s Law of Physics. Body in motion, stays in motion.  It’s a lot easier to get sober that it is to get sober again!

I had to earnestly and without reservation, ask God to relieve me of this.  I had to… or was dead.  So I did.  I continue to do so.  What I have today is a reprieve that is contingent upon my spiritual condition.  I have to turn my will over to God daily.

Jun
18

Seven Unique Features of Celebrate Recovery

  • This recovery ministry is based on God’s Word, the Bible. Jesus taught the Sermon on the Mount, he began by stating “Eight Ways to Be Happy.”  Today we call them the Beatitudes.  From a conventional viewpoint, most of these statements didn’t make sense.  They sounded like contradictions.  But when you fully understand what Jesus is saying, you’ll realize that these eight principles are God’s road to recovery, wholeness, growth, and spiritual maturity.
  • This recovery ministry is forward-looking. Rather than wallowing in the past, or dredging up and rehearsing painful memories over and over, Celebrate Recovery  focuses on the future.  Regardless of what has already happened, the solution is to start making wise choices now and depend on Christ’s power to help me make those changes.
  • This recovery ministry emphasizes personal responsibility. Instead of playing the “accuse and excuse” game of victimization, this program helps people face up to their own poor choices and deal with what they can do something about.  We cannot control all that happens to us.  But we can control how we respond to everything.  That is a secret of happiness.  When we stop wasting time fixing the blame, we have more energy to fix the problem.  When you stop hiding your own faults and stop hurling accusations at others, then the healing power of Christ can begin working in your mind, will, and emotions.
  • This recovery ministry emphasizes spiritual commitment to Jesus Christ. The third principle calls for people to make a total surrender of their lives to Christ.  Complete and lasting recovery cannot happen without this step.  Everybody needs Jesus.  Celebrate Recovery  is thoroughly evangelistic in nature.  Changed lives always attract others who want to be changed.
  • This recovery ministry utilizes the biblical truth that we need each other in order to grow spiritually and emotionally. It is built around small group interaction and the fellowship of a caring community.  There are many therapies, growth programs, and counselors today that are built around one-on-one interaction.  But Celebrate Recovery  is built on the New Testament principle that we don’t get well by ourselves.  We need each other.   Fellowship and accountability are two important components of spiritual growth.
  • This recovery ministry addresses all types of habits, hurts and hang-ups. Some recovery programs deal only with alcohol or drugs or another single problem.  But Celebrate Recovery  is a “large umbrella” ministry under which a limitless number of issues can be dealt with.   Less than one out of three who attend Celebrate Recovery  are dealing with alcohol or drugs.  This ministry is for all types of hurts, hang-ups and habits.
  • Finally, this recovery ministry encourages giving back! Because Celebrate Recovery  is biblical and church-based, it encourages people to seek our where God wants them to serve after they’ve found recovery in Christ.   Many of us will be using our gifts and talents serving the Lord in some capacity in the church.